Discover the Hidden Forces That Shape Your Life

What if your personality, emotions, relationships, and decisions are being guided by an invisible system you never knew existed?

Survival Games People Play introduces a groundbreaking framework that reveals how your Survival Mechanism begins forming before birth and continues to influence nearly every aspect of your life. Through powerful insights, real-life examples, and practical understanding, the book helps you uncover the unconscious patterns that drive conflict, self-sabotage, and repeated behaviors.

More importantly, it shows how awareness of these hidden forces can help you move beyond merely surviving—toward greater freedom, authentic relationships, and a deeper connection with your true Self.

What You’ll Discover

The Birth of Self-Sabotage

Discover why intelligent, capable people unknowingly hold themselves back and repeat the same mistakes despite their best intentions.

The Invisible Games We Play

Recognize the unconscious psychological games that create repeated conflicts, emotional pain, and self-defeating patterns.

Breaking Free from the Past

Learn practical ways to identify inherited beliefs, emotional conditioning, and repetitive patterns that no longer serve you.

Living Beyond Survival

Move from merely surviving life to consciously creating it—with greater clarity, meaningful relationships, inner peace, and purpose.

Decode your birth design—
an enigma, all this while

Break free from patterns that have trapped you since your birth. This book, “Stop Surviving Start Living With Freedom,” reveals how early chaos, parental imprints, and survival wiring shape your personality and keep you stuck in your survival mode. Through clear case references and relevant metaphors, you’ll learn to decode the scripts written before you were born that govern your thoughts, behaviors, emotions, and destiny. Whether you’ve felt powerless in relationships, stuck in old habits, or lost in self-doubt, this book offers practical tools to help you understand your unconscious programming and transition into conscious living.

Lawrence V. Fernandes blends decades of NLP, hypnotherapy, and his Conception Chaos Typology and Survival Mechanism Typology expertise into accessible insights designed to empower every reader. Step into true freedom and craft a life that reflects the person you were born to be.

Reading this book, you’ll rediscover:

• How parents’ chaos silently codes your existence
• The hidden blueprints your creators left behind
• How survival mechanisms shape your daily reality
• The blueprint of your birth personality—and how to evolve beyond it

Decoding the Unconscious
Blueprints That Govern You

Our unconscious mind shapes every decision we make. In “The Self Decoded,” Lawrence V. Fernandes guides you to unravel the hidden scripts written before you formed your first memories. Drawing on clinical hypnotherapy, NLP, and his Conception Chaos Typology, Fernandes reveals how early parental reception imprints the core patterns that steer your behaviors, emotions, decisions, and relationships. You’ll learn to identify the invisible Self that governs your daily life and discover how these silent forces influence the people you attract. You will also learn how two core mechanisms generate stress and contribute to psychosomatic illness—connecting the dots between emotional pain and physical symptoms. Packed with vivid metaphors, real-world examples, and hands-on exercises, this book offers a step-by-step journey from autopilot surviving to consciously living your life.

What You’ll Discover

• How your parents hold ownership over your existence
• How the invisible Self quietly governs your decisions and emotions
• The relationship patterns you consistently attract
• Practical insights and tools to initiate lasting change
• How two hidden mechanisms drive stress and psychosomatic illness

(*) DISCLAIMER

“In pursuit of knowledge, everyday something is acquired. In pursuit of wisdom, everyday something is dropped”
Lao Tzu